I can do all things thru Him who strengthens me

indeed, we can do all things through Christ...
with Christ, nothing is impossible

however, this can only be possible if we maintain a good relationship with Him, and thus trusting Him to help us.
That's how it all works...our God is almighty and powerful, and trust is all that we need to know that He'll make things work for us.

Like Pek Ya mentioned this morning, when in need, scream for help! (ok, I'm exaggerating, but hey! it's true, yah?)
as Paul said in the same letter "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God."
however, my dear brothers and sisters, please do not see God as our genie in the bottle...and all u have to do is to rub the bottle, make ur wish and God appears. Ultimately, God knows what's best for us, and what's not...He's still sovereign...even if it seems that He isn't helping u, know that He is, in the long run...

and of cos, there are fellow brothers and sisters in Christ around us. That's what they're there for too! not only for friendship, but also to encourage and to grow together. So, seek others to help. Quoting from Pek Ya once again, "It is okay to ask for help as all their ability to help does not come by themselves, but from God".

Conclusion?
"I can do everything through him who gives me strength."
-- Philippians 4:13